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Great books & ideas · Kim Scott · 2017

Radical Candor — the key ideas

Feedback that is both caring and direct. The key ideas of Radical Candor by Kim Scott, the strongest criticism, and how to practise them.

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Feedback that is both caring and direct.

The key ideas

Care personally, challenge directly

Good feedback comes from someone who clearly cares about you and is still willing to tell you the truth.

Ruinous empathy

Staying quiet to spare someone’s feelings often hurts them more in the long run — they never get the chance to improve.

The criticism

  • The name has been used to excuse bluntness or cruelty — “I’m just being candid” — which is the opposite of what the author intends.
  • Directness norms vary between cultures and people; the same words can feel caring in one setting and harsh in another.

A real-world example

The situation
Tania’s friend is about to send a job application with a weak cover letter.
The idea applied
She says: “I really want you to get this, so I’ll be honest — the letter doesn’t show what you did in your last role. Want to fix it together?”

Practise it

Give one piece of specific feedback this week that starts with why you care.

Described in our own words with the source named — not a summary of the full book and not a substitute for reading it.

Lessons that use these ideas

  • Giving feedback that helps — Specific, kind and about the thing — not about the person. (7 min · Practising)
  • Feedback and coaching — Helping people grow by asking more and telling less. (7 min · Practising)

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