Great books & ideas · Susan Cain · 2012

Quiet — the key ideas

Making room for quieter people — and questioning the idea that the loudest voice is the best one.

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Making room for quieter people — and questioning the idea that the loudest voice is the best one.

The key ideas

Loud is not the same as right

Groups often follow the most talkative person, even when a quieter member has the better idea. Designing ways for everyone to contribute improves decisions.

Different people recharge differently

Some people find social time energising and others find it draining, even when they enjoy it. Planning around that is practical, not antisocial.

The criticism

• Introversion and extroversion are a spectrum and most people sit in between; the book can make them sound like two kinds of people.
• Readers sometimes use the label as a reason to avoid growth, which the author does not recommend.

A real-world example

The situation

In team meetings, the same two people talk and a quieter colleague never speaks.

The idea applied

The team lead asks everyone to write their idea down for two minutes before discussion. The quiet colleague’s idea turns out to be the one they use.

Practise it

In your next group conversation, ask a quieter person directly what they think — and wait.

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