Guided technique · Thought work · 15 min
Worry time
A set 15-minute slot each day for worrying. At other times, you note worries briefly and postpone them to worry time.
Level: Practising · Free — no account needed to read
A set 15-minute slot each day for worrying. At other times, you note worries briefly and postpone them to worry time.
Why it may help
Postponing worry is easier than stopping it. Giving worry a container stops it spreading across the whole day, and many worries shrink by the time you get to them.
When to use it
- worry leaks into your whole day
- you worry in bed at night
- worries feel urgent in the moment but rarely are
Helps with
- Worry that takes over the day
How to do it
- Choose a 15-minute slot today, not close to bedtime, and a place that isn’t your bed.
- During the day, when a worry arrives, write two words and tell yourself: “Later, at worry time.”
- At worry time, go through the list. Turn anything you can act on into a next step. (about 900 seconds)
- When the time is up, stop — even mid-worry — and do something absorbing.
What the evidence says
Moderate evidence: Several studies support it, but the effects are smaller, the studies are fewer or less rigorous, or results vary between groups.
- What was found
- Worry postponement (stimulus control) has been studied since the 1980s, and trials show it can reduce how often people worry.
- What is uncertain
- Effects are moderate and it is usually one part of a wider approach, so its effect alone varies.
- Who it may not suit
- If worry is constant and hard to control for months, this can help, but it is worth also talking to a professional.
Where this comes from: Worry and anxiety research; Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) research.
Afterwards, ask yourself
How many of your postponed worries still mattered at worry time?
Lessons behind this technique
- Scheduled worry time — Postponing worries to a set daily slot, so they stop taking the whole day. (6 min · Practising)
- Worry vs problem solving — Problem solving ends in a next step. Worry goes round and round without one. (6 min · Beginner)
If you need more support
- When self-help isn’t enough — Signs it is time to talk to someone, and who you can talk to.