Module 4 · Change & break habits · Research-supported

Restarting after an interruption

Coming back after illness, travel or a hard month — smaller, sooner, without guilt.

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The problem it solves

How do you come back to a habit after weeks away?

The concept

Illness, travel, a new job or a hard month can stop a habit completely. Coming back is often harder than it needs to be, because people try to restart at full size or wait for the perfect moment.

Restart small and soon. Return with the minimum version, in the old context if you can, where the cues still live. Let the full version come back gradually.

A fresh start — a new week, a birthday, the first of the month — can give a restart a boost, but it isn’t required. The next ordinary day works too.

Why it matters

Old cues can reactivate a habit that has been interrupted, and temporal landmarks are associated with people taking up goals again — both make a small restart easier than a large one.

Research-supported: Good studies support it, but there are fewer of them, the effects are modest, or they come from a narrow set of situations.

See it happen

After a month of caring for a sick parent, Rosa hasn’t done her yoga practice at all.

The ordinary first approach

She’ll wait until life is normal again and restart properly with a full hour.

With the idea

She does five minutes on her usual mat the next morning, and adds a little each week.

What changed

She came back at the size her life could hold, instead of waiting for a life that could hold the full version.

Easy to get wrong

• Waiting for the perfect restart day.
• Restarting at full size after a long gap.
• Carrying guilt about the gap into the restart.

Try it now: Plan a small comeback

1. Pick a habit that has paused.
2. Write the smallest version you could do tomorrow, in its old place.
3. Decide how you’ll grow it over the next few weeks.

Apply it to one of your habits

For one of your habits that has paused, what is your small comeback — and when?

Reflect

• What made past restarts easy or hard?

Go deeper — evidence & sources

• Dai, Milkman & Riis (2014). The Fresh Start Effect: Temporal Landmarks Motivate Aspirational Behavior. Management Science. doi:10.1287/mnsc.2014.1901
• Lally, van Jaarsveld, Potts & Wardle (2010). How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world. European Journal of Social Psychology. doi:10.1002/ejsp.674
• Wood, Tam & Witt (2005). Changing circumstances, disrupting habits. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.88.6.918