Thinking books · Emotions & understanding people · Jonathan Haidt, 2012

The Righteous Mind — the big ideas

On why decent people divide over politics and morality, and cannot hear each other.

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The big ideas

Intuition comes first and reasoning follows: in moral judgement, the conclusion usually arrives before the argument, and the argument is built to defend it.

His image is a rider on an elephant — the reasoning rider serves the intuitive elephant, mostly as its press secretary rather than its driver.

People weight different moral foundations — harm, fairness, loyalty, authority, sanctity, liberty — and disagreements across that difference sound like bad faith from both sides.

The practical implication is that argument rarely moves moral positions, and relationship and shared experience sometimes do.

Practise it — no need to have read it

Take a position you find morally obvious. Write what someone who disagrees is protecting that you are not weighting.

A hint: Not why they are wrong. What they are protecting.

Where it shows up in real life

• Political disagreement
• Values conflicts at work
• Understanding why an argument changes nobody

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