Thinking books · Foundations & philosophy · Marcus Aurelius, c. 180

Meditations — the big ideas

A Roman emperor’s private notebook, written to himself, about keeping his judgement under pressure.

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The big ideas

The central move is separating what is up to you from what is not, and directing effort only at the first. Most distress attaches to the second column.

It repeatedly distinguishes the event from your judgement about the event: the judgement is where the suffering usually lives, and the judgement is the part that is yours.

It was never written to be read. That is why it repeats itself — he kept having to tell himself the same things, which is more honest than a book that has the answer.

It is a book about response rather than reaction, written by someone with more power than almost anyone alive and still unable to control what happened.

Practise it — no need to have read it

Take something occupying your attention right now. Two columns: what is up to you, what is not. Be strict — outcomes and other people go in the second.

A hint: Then act only on the first, and decide deliberately how you will respond to the second.

Where it shows up in real life

• Setbacks at work
• Waiting on a decision someone else is making
• Anger you cannot act on

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