Thinking books · Leadership & character · Jocko Willink & Leif Babin, 2015

Extreme Ownership — the big ideas

Leadership principles from military experience, centred on taking full responsibility.

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The big ideas

Taking ownership of everything in your remit, including what others did, removes the search for blame and is the fastest route to a fix.

If the team did not understand, the leader did not communicate it — a demanding reframe that is usually accurate.

Decentralised command: people need to understand the intent well enough to decide without asking, which means intent must be communicated more than instructions.

Its tone is absolute and its cases are military. Applied literally to every situation it becomes self-blame, which is not what it argues.

Practise it — no need to have read it

Take a failure you attributed to someone else. Write what you could have done differently, without excusing them.

A hint: Both can be true. Only one is yours to act on.

Where it shows up in real life

• Team failures
• Being blamed unfairly
• Communicating intent

Described in our own words with the source named — never quoted, and not a substitute for reading the book.