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Adaptability · Lesson 4 of 5

Staying curious when unsure

When things are uncertain, curiosity keeps you open to options that fear would hide. Asking "what could this make possible?" changes what you see.

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Uncertainty tends to push people toward fear and defensiveness. We focus on what could go wrong and try to hold on to what we know. That reaction is natural, but it also narrows what we notice, including new opportunities that the change might bring.

Curiosity works differently. It asks questions: what is actually changing? What are other people trying? What could I learn here? What might this make possible that was not possible before? Those questions tend to lead to experiments, conversations and ideas.

Curiosity can be practised deliberately: read about how others handled a similar change, talk to someone who has been through it, try one small new thing each week. Over time, the habit of asking questions makes uncertainty feel less like a threat and more like a puzzle.

See it happen

When AI tools arrive at his office, Tomasz, an experienced copywriter, feels threatened and refuses to use them, telling colleagues they will ruin good writing.

The first reaction
The tools seem to threaten his craft and his job, so resisting them feels like protecting the quality he cares about.
With the idea
He decides to spend a week experimenting with them on low-stakes tasks. He finds they help with first drafts, but his judgement, voice and editing are what make the work good. He becomes the person who teaches colleagues to use them well.
What changed
He met uncertainty with experiments and questions instead of only resistance.

Easy to take the wrong way

Curiosity is not the same as accepting every change uncritically. You can explore something new and still conclude that parts of it are not good. Curiosity just makes that judgement better informed.

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