Habit technique · Mind & motivation · A few minutes
Pros and cons, honestly
Level: Beginner · Free — no account needed to read
List honestly what an unwanted habit gives you and what it costs you, now and over months.
Why it may help
Seeing both sides clarifies what need the habit meets and what you’d gain by changing — and prevents pretending the habit gives you nothing.
When to use it
- You’re unsure whether to change a habit
- Building a replacement
How to apply it
- Draw two columns: what it gives me, what it costs me.
- Fill both honestly.
- Circle the gains you’d need to replace.
An example
Musa’s list showed his cigarette breaks gave him time alone and company — which a walking break could also give.
The common mistake
Only listing the costs.
Practise it
Do the two-column list for one habit.
What the evidence says
Conceptual framework: A way of organising ideas that helps you think clearly. It describes rather than predicts, so it is judged by how useful it is.
Weighing pros and cons is a recognised technique; on its own it rarely changes habits, but it helps choose a good replacement.
Behaviour Change Technique Taxonomy (v1) codes: 9.2.
Sources
- Michie, Richardson, Johnston, Abraham, Francis, Hardeman and colleagues (2013). The Behavior Change Technique Taxonomy (v1) of 93 Hierarchically Clustered Techniques. Annals of Behavioral Medicine. doi:10.1007/s12160-013-9486-6
Problems it helps with
- “I can’t stop an unwanted habit.” — You’ve decided to stop, and it still happens — often before you’ve even noticed.
Lessons behind it
- What the habit gives you — Every unwanted habit pays you something. Name it, and you can pay yourself another way. (6 min · Intermediate)
- Temptation and the pull of now — Short-term rewards win because they’re close. How to bring long-term ones nearer. (6 min · Intermediate)